Pilgrimage is like hiking – except you face your fears along the way.
Dear Pilgrims,
Fear is a companion to us all. For a long time, I tried to escape it – the fear of not meeting society’s expectations, the fear of rejection, or the fear of making the wrong decisions. I distracted myself with constant busyness or numbed myself with alcohol or media – anything to avoid looking in the mirror of my own insecurities.
But Danish philosopher Søren Kierkegaard teaches us that fear is an inevitable part of life. It arises from our freedom – the freedom to shape our own lives. According to Kierkegaard, fear reminds us of the infinite possibilities before us. Yet within this freedom lies a chance: the opportunity to live more consciously and to truly know ourselves.
Pilgrimage: Courage to Confront Fear
On my pilgrimages, I’ve learned to stop avoiding fear. Eventually, there’s nowhere left to run. Hours spent walking alone force me to confront my thoughts and fears. Pilgrimage compels us to slow down, listen, and face what we often suppress in daily life. It’s a journey that moves us both outwardly and inwardly.
Kierkegaard describes fear as the “dizziness of freedom.” That’s exactly what I feel on the pilgrimage path: the freedom to choose my way comes with uncertainty. But instead of running from it, I learn to embrace it. The path reveals that fear is not an enemy but a teacher.
Leap of Faith: Trusting the Path
What helps me most is the spiritual aspect of pilgrimage. When I trust in God, I experience what Kierkegaard calls the “leap of faith” – the moment I embrace uncertainty and trust I’ll be guided. As soon as I take those first steps, the tension eases. There’s no perfect plan, just trust in the journey and in what lies ahead.
This reminds me that I don’t need to have everything figured out in life. The uncertainty that often triggers fear is also an invitation to live in the here and now and to feel the freedom it brings.
A pilgrimage, much like life itself, is full of uncertainty. We set out without fully knowing where the road will lead. We get lost, we doubt ourselves and our decisions. Yet, at the same time, we experience the beauty of the freedom the journey offers: the natural landscapes, encounters with others, and deep conversations. In letting go of control, we find true freedom.
Together on the Journey: Facing Fears as a Community
This freedom becomes even more profound when shared in community. Many people fear embarking on a pilgrimage alone. It’s daunting to confront one’s thoughts and fears. But when we walk together with others, we realize we’re not alone. Each person carries their own fears, doubts, and questions. Herein lies a great opportunity: by sharing, supporting, and walking alongside one another, the path becomes lighter.
Fear as a Signpost
Kierkegaard saw fear as the gateway to freedom – a truth I have experienced time and again on my pilgrimages. By confronting fear, I not only find myself but also deepen my connection to God and the people around me. Pilgrimage teaches me that fear, no matter how threatening it may seem, is ultimately a guide: it points out where I can grow, develop, and become freer.
Your Next Step: Year-End Pilgrimage
Confronting fear can seem overwhelming, but it’s also an invitation to grow and move forward. If this resonates with you, why not take a step – literally and metaphorically – by joining our year-end pilgrimage?
On 28th December 2024, we will walk together from Berlin-Wannsee to Potsdam. This special year-end journey offers you the chance to pause, let go, and mindfully close the year – with brief reflections, inspiring sights, and the power of community. As a powerful symbol of renewal, you’re invited to take an optional ice bath – a refreshing reset for your body and spirit.
Let’s end the year not with stress but with community and hope. Sign up now to reserve your spot.
Your Reflection Moment
Take five quiet minutes to reflect on this question:
What is a fear that has been holding you back this year?
Write it down and ask yourself:
- What might this fear be trying to reveal to me?
- What’s one small step I could take today to face it?
Keep this note with you as a reminder that facing fear is a journey – one step at a time.
Feel free to share your thoughts and reply to this email.
Buen Camino,
Alexander